Not long after Hilary died, an old friend of mine who is also a psychiatrist said something that stayed with me: "You should try to reach a point where you can see your marriage to her as a blessing." My Jewish friends have a different way of putting it:Â May her life be as a blessing. But it was difficult for me to feel that way in the first few months that followed Hilary's cruelly untimely death, fixated as I wa…
SOURCE: ArtsJournal at 07:01AM on November 26, 2020